Thursday, May 9, 2013

Ratan Tata on Ups and downs in life



"Ups and downs in life are very important to keep us going, because a straight line even in an ECG means we are not alive" - Ratan Tata (Industrialist - India)

It is really distressing that life has so many up and downs. I would dream of a life that goes up always.
But real life is different.

The great patriotic business man of India, Mr. Ratan Tata has once remarked that a straight line denotes death even in an ECG report.
How true he is. Life must go up and down.

The ebb and flow of the sea waves have a story to tell.

1.       The ebb and flow in a sea does not affect the quantity and the quality of the sea water.
2.       Both are caused by the effect on the sea by an outer agency, the moon.
3.       The success of the sea is not affected by neither the ebb nor by the tide.
4.       None evaluates the success of the sea according to the ebb and flow.
5.       An ebb assures that there will be a flow and vice versa.

Some of my motivational seminars are packed with a crowd. The next meeting may not attract a crowd. I have met thin crowd in spite of elaborate advertisements and other efforts. It puzzled me a lot of time. I have run out of course materials; I have carried back the huge bulk of course materials after some meetings.

I have seen success immediately followed by a dim light. I do not hide my wonder at this phenomenon. But I understand that life is always like this.

Some used to advise me that ‘life should be like this’ – ebb and flow must be there. Otherwise life will look monotonous.
Let me tell you frankly that I do not agree with this theory. Change is the spice of life. That I agree. Change makes life moving. It keeps life fresh.
But change does not mean that it must be a continuous up and down. It can be an ‘up’ to another ‘up’.

Still there are many things in this life that is beyond my control and wish. Life never goes on a straight line, even if it goes always up. Nothing happens in this world in a monotonous straight line.

No country can claim of a permanent weather. Even countries that claim moderate climate face unexpected horrid situations.
My state, Kerala (India) is well known for its moderate climate. But for the last few years, we are threatened by a forecast that the state may turn into a desert in future. How can it be? It is impossible. But science says that it may be the future. Kerala was a land of rivers, streams, ponds, greeneries, birds and animals. It is getting hot every year now. Will it happen?

No country claims a permanent status of economy. No family can claim a comfortable economic status though out its existence in this land, generation after generations.
Many animals, birds and fishes have become extinct.
There seems an unseen law in this earth that works constantly to change everything. Permanency may be a danger to the existence of this Universe.

Change is not always a downward journey and not always an upward progress. It is a wave like movement. It is life. It is the sign of life.

So I feel that my amazement at the ebb and flow of life is unnecessary. It may be meaningful, but not rewarding.  It is better to travel up and down with life.

The other day I was standing on the Alleppuzha beach. (Allappuzha - a beach in Kerala, India). There were no great athletes skating on the waves. There I saw boys of the nearby area playing in the sea water. They were not afraid of high waves. Rather they were thrilled at the occasion. I saw them lifted above and brought down by the waves.
I caught the magic.
Why stand amazed at the ebb and flow. Allow it to lift me up and bring me down. It is fun. Why resist something that I cannot stop? Enjoy the feast.

Be careful not to be carried away by the waves.

Professor Jacob Abraham                                                                            

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Friday, April 19, 2013

Eric Liddell - success



"In the dust of defeat as well as the laurels of history, there is glory to be found if one has done his best." - Eric Liddell ― 1924 Olympic Gold Medalist, Missionary

Often we are worried about failure. Failure is the haunting dream than the nagging dream of success. We hesitate to initiate because of the fear of failure.
I used to remind my audience in motivational seminars: “expect the best and be ready for the worst.”
All lived in this world have tasted at least once the bitter teeth of failure.  
The way we look at failure is important. Failure is a myth. It is not a final verdict. It is only the unexpected outcome. It is only the unintended result.
Where can we find solace in failure?
If we have done our best, it is always success.
Every endeavor is measured by the effort we have put in it.
We kept the rules, persevered and work hard.
That is success.

Professor Jacob Abraham                                                                            

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Albert Einstein - goal




If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” - Albert Einstein

Only success in life can produce real happiness. Success is the fulfillment of the goal. A successful life is not a wayward journey to an unknown destination. It has definite goals. It is a purposeful journey to the goal. It is an attempt to achieve the goal set before us.
Goals give life a purpose, path and destination. Every step put forward is to that destination.
Goals give meaning to life.
Goals can be short term of long term.
No life should be tied to men. For men may fail. Men may not understand your goal. It is not their goal, it is yours. Men may not act according to your expectation. Men may leave us in the middle.
Tie life to a goal. Pursue it passionately. Work hard to achieve it. Do not give up your goal even in the hardest times.
It is for fulfillment. It will never fail you.

Professor Jacob Abraham                                                                            

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John Wesley - man on fire




Set a man on FIRE and people will come from miles to watch him burn. – John Wesley

John Wesley was a reformist evangelist. The way he worked is amazing. (Read)
He believed in motivating people as the best way to promote his concepts.
A man on fire can ignite many. It s ignited to ignite.
Only man has the ability to leave an inheritance to his younger generation.
Investing on man is investing on generations.
Jesus Christ is the best example. He invested his time and talents on men. The process of ignition goes on.
The philosophies of Socrates, Plato, Aristotle etc. are still alive today because they were entrusted with men.
Ideas never die because men are its propagators.
Modern motivational speakers are trying to reform men so that they can reform the society.
A man on fire can set many on fire.

Professor Jacob Abraham                                                                            

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